How writing my memoir is goingI set a New Year’s resolution to begin writing my memoir about my immigration experience. A year in, I’m about halfway through at over…Dec 19, 2024Dec 19, 2024
A new dish a month in 2024My partner and I had a couples New Year’s resolution this year to cook a new dish each month. Here’s what we made and what we thought.Dec 16, 2024Dec 16, 2024
I was shortlisted for a role model award at workI reflect on how this nomination reminded me of an award I got in high school for leadership.Nov 15, 2024Nov 15, 2024
Breaking up joint accounts should not be as difficult as the breakupAs if dealing with a divorce and house transfer wasn’t stressful enough, my bank and insurance company made it extra difficult for me to…Aug 1, 2024Aug 1, 2024
How lawyers made my six-week house transfer take six monthsAfter seven months of financial negotiations when divorcing my ex, it then took six months for our house transfer to go through. Here’s the…Jul 1, 2024Jul 1, 2024
Reflections and lessons from the financial negotiations in my divorceIt took seven months from starting financial negotiations with my ex to agreeing on a final figure. Here’s what happened and what I learned…Jun 2, 2024Jun 2, 2024
The simplified divorce process in Scotland is anything but simpleAn account of my awful experience trying to use the Scottish Courts website when applying for a simplified divorce in Scotland.May 1, 20242May 1, 20242
I divorced my visa sponsor, but I will never be at peace with my immigration experienceI have a lot to say about getting divorced. I’m starting with how the UK immigration system made my first relationship and breakup much…Apr 1, 20241Apr 1, 20241
I want to start to write my memoir in 2024My immigration story is one worth writing down while the details are still relatively fresh in my mind.Jan 1, 2024Jan 1, 2024
Reflections on reading 10 books in 2023I got back into the habit of reading this year and blogged about each book I wrote. I share my reflections from the experience.Dec 20, 2023Dec 20, 2023